Blog is undergoing some remodeling!

May 27, 2009 at 1:47 pm | In Uncategorized | 2 Comments

Please be patient with the design that is going on here. It will be at least another week before everything gets back to normal (or a new normal). If you hate looking at it you can always subscribe to my blog- and just read my posts through a reader! ;) Thanks guys!

You Capture: Sweet

May 21, 2009 at 8:22 pm | In You Capture Photos, pictures | 8 Comments
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We’ve been outside a lot lately with the weather getting warm.  We’ve taken many, many, many walks, and getting lots of exercise.  I’ve been teaching Capri to hold hands crossing the street, and to stay with the rest of us.  So- I’ve asked her to hold hands, and now its her absolute favorite thing.  Although, she gets a little bossy and thinks that since you let her hold your hand, that you will follow her wherever SHE wants to go.  So- shes a puller.

Here she is with her 6 month older cousin Jonah:

P1020881and her friend Ally :

P1020906I just think its so SWEET seeing her hold hands with her friends and family.  I love how she loves.

For more You Capture moments go here:

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Autism Healed

May 19, 2009 at 9:32 pm | In Capri, baby developments, health, personal talk | Leave a Comment
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Through Twitter, I’ve gotten to know a new friend her twitter name is @haysdewy (you should go follow her now!).  We started chatting, and we have totally connected.  It’s rare to find someone that I relate to as much as I immediately related to her. Her blog is AWESOME and her latest blog post, was amazing because all of the things she talks about that she does with her daughter, I pretty much do with Capri.  I’ve wanted to share what I do with Capri to all of you- but I just didn’t really know how because, well- it’s alot! But, she did such a great job here, I’m just posting her post, and just pretend you hear me shouting “Amen” throughout!  Her oldest daughter is healing from Autism, and this video, and her explanation give you a peak into the thousands of families that are doing the same thing, and healing their children.  I will also say that Capri has not been diagnosed with Autism, and I don’t believe she ever will be- but having it in our family (three of my nephews have Autism), and seeing all the “early” signs, I believe that we have protected her from something that was a great possibility.
So, I’m finally talking about something that I’ve never talked about here, and that is that Capri eats a special diet (organic, gluten and dairy free), I did not vaccinate her, and we try to keep her away from all toxins.  Her behavior and health has changed drastically- and it goes back just as drastic if we stop what we are doing.

Click on the link below to watch this AWESOME video.  I promise that you will understand our world a little more after watching this:

“AUTISM YESTERDAY” Autism is Reversible from JB Handley on Vimeo.

“It’s trying to find the right recipe–for the things that work, the things that don’t work”

“Right now we are almost exclusively doing HOMEOPATHY with Ryder”

“Any number of these means can make a difference, and making SOME difference is probably the greatest gift you can give your child”

Watching this video was a way to force myself to remember back to what Sophie used to be like, at one time Sophie:

  • screamed almost anytime we took a car ride, the entire way there and back
  • had loose stools until the age of 2 1/2, when we finally started working with her diet
  • walked on only her toes everywhere
  • would not look you in the eyes when talking with her
  • only ate a few select foods, most of them being simple carbohydrates, fruit and dairy
  • had a hypersensitive sense of hearing and smell that would set her off in tears
  • woke up screaming several times throughout any given night
  • wouldn’t sleep in any later than 6:00 am
  • made grunting and whiny noises instead of talking to people
  • chose to play by herself with only a few select repeat toys
  • hid in corners screaming any time she was confronted or disciplined for her behavior
  • stimulated herself by twisting her hair and putting it into her ear every 5-15 minutes for the entire length of time she was awake
  • had purple circles/bags around her eyes and would catch repeat ear infections and respiratory illnesses
  • wandered off aimlessly without any notion that she was away from where she was supposed to be–completely unaware of other people and places.

After reading several books/websites on children healed from Autism, I have found the resounding theme for most recovered Autism patients are the following:

  • Getting the child away from environmental toxins (like the chemicals found in: yard & bug sprays, household cleaners, air fresheners, fabric softeners, automotive substances, etc)
  • Helping the child to detox the heavy metals and toxic ingredients from past immunizations: human diploid cells (originating from HUMAN ABORTED FETAL TISSUE), yeast, sucrose, thimerosal, formaldehyde, aluminum hydroxide, aluminum phosphate, phenoxyethanol (ANTIFREEZE), a continuous line of monkey kidney cells, monkey kidney cell culture, monkey lung cells, monosodium glutamate (MSG) IMMUNIZATION INGREDIENT SOURCE: http://www.wnho.net/vaccine_ingredients.htm
  • Controlling a child’s diet by eliminating foods with chemical additives, meats and dairy containing immunizations, avoiding casein and gluten until they build up the enzymes needed to digest them, and what worked best for our child was avoiding sugar, since most autistic children have an accompanying yeast overgrowth issue, which feeds off of processed and artificial forms for sweetener.
  • Doing your own research and not SETTLING for something that is not working, it is just wasting valuable time that could be used for recovery.

We are so blessed to have come so far with Sophie! People who don’t know her well NOW may not assume her odd characteristics as being autistically related, but instead only “quirky“. I know how far she has come since the forementioned behaviors above, and praise the Lord for her extensive recovery. Sophie is growing into a beautiful and alert young lady, with an interest in so many of God’s wonderful blessings. God is the God of miracles, and I see it each and every day in our three daughters.

3 more related BLOG entries I’ve written on Autism:

http://bodymindsoulfood.blogspot.com/2009/03/book-review-hes-not-autistic-but.html

http://bodymindsoulfood.blogspot.com/2009/03/book-in-review-hes-not-autistic-but-by.html

http://bodymindsoulfood.blogspot.com/2009/03/quotes-from-hes-not-autistic-but-by.html

Photo Friday- Oh So pretty

May 15, 2009 at 6:05 pm | In Capri, baby developments, pictures | 10 Comments
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P1020900Doesn’t she look like she’s 3 years old?  What the heck happened to my baby? LOL

Some of my favorite things lately….

May 14, 2009 at 3:45 pm | In New stuff!, reviews | 3 Comments
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  • sensesmosaicMy favorite site to shop on lately is www.hautelook.com.  My mom found this site, and how it works is you have to “sign up” (it’s free!) and they send you an email a day with the designer sale for THAT day.  The sale only lasts a day of two, and then its gone.  You can get designer clothes, accessories, baby clothes etc for like half off!  I bought Capri some adorable little shoes on their that are normally 50 bucks for only 15!
  • Chai Lattes…. I’ve sort of been obsessed lately, and I have a few every day.  I just use the Chai organic mix with some almond milk, and oh man its so good.
  • I’ve been really liking the new show Cupid- has anyone else seen it?  I don’t know- I guess I just love love and its all about that, so I enjoy it.
  • We went to a new restarurant in town in Valparaiso called Zaza’s.  It was AMAZING italian food.  We had such a good time.  The food is organic, and the chef is from Rome so its authentic and OH so yummy!
  • I’ve been LOVING my workout routine with Jillian Micheals 30 day Shred. It’s hard but only 22 minutes long and I sweat and I’m losing weight!  I also just bought the biggest loser “scult” and I like it too, its just a little easy compared to Shred, so I do it on my lazy days- when I just don’t feel like putting up with all Jillian wants to make me do!
  • As of the last few days Capri has been talking NON stop.  She just starts her day talking and ends it talking, and I love it.  I love listening to her own little language as she plays by herself, and I just can’t wait to know all that she is saying and thinking.
  • I’ve been really loving blip.fm.  It’s sort of like twitter for music, and you can “blip” other people’s songs, and save them for your own playlist.  It’s free and you can listen, and share music for free!  I haven’t been buying any music lately to save money, and I don’t even feel the need with this! Love it!
  • The Spring weather outside has been gorgeous.  I’ve never really experienced a Spring, ya know?  Just 75 and sunny, rainy some days, flowers blooming, everything is coming to life- even me.
  • Taking more pictures! Well, Capri is just such an adorable little subject that its just really fun, and I think I forgot how much I loved it.
  • Reading.  I’m reading a lot more.  I’m making time for it in my day, and its really feeding my soul.  I’m spending more time in God’s word, I’m reading a a Bible Study book about being a Worthy woman, and a princess to the King, and I’m reading Twilight-Oh TWILIGHT! LOL, and I’m reading more blogs, and I’m enjoying it so much.
  • Evelyn Bay Coffee Company in Valparaiso- is my new favorite place! Oh, the people their are so nice, the couches are so comfy, they have “tweet-ups” and board game nights, and we had our Mom nights out there the other night.  Oh, and they have a blended Vanilla Chai (like a chair frappuccino) that is to DIE for, oh my!  Oh, and they have drive thru- woot-woot!
  • Oh and Etsy.com never disappoints.  Even if I don’t have money to spend I just love to “window show” and find favorite sellers, because really- its just all art, and its just so pretty.

Contentment

May 12, 2009 at 12:51 pm | In Spiritual talk, personal talk | 2 Comments

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I once did this exercise in a personal growth seminar called “palms up, palms down”.  We sat with our eyes closed as an instructor told us to sit with our hands on our needs and he would say “palms up” and then “palms down”.  We had no idea what the purpose was, how long it was going to last, or what would happen next.  Well, the instructor went on for about 30 minutes (maybe longer?  I think I might have fallen asleep LOL).  The whole time I was thinking, “What the heck is this?!?” “Why do I have to keep doing this?!”  When he finished I waited for them to tell me what the “lesson” was supposed to be.  Instead of doing that, he asked everyone what their experience was.  Some people were very angry, I mean, they just thought this was the dumbest thing ever, and they lost a half hour of their life that they will never get back for no good reason!  Then he asked other people that had a complete opposite experience.  They said they were having so much fun, they felt so peaceful, they enjoyed the break, they prayed, they thought of their family, their dreams and hopes etc!  I think I was somewhere in-between , I didn’t get angry, but I didn’t create a great experience for myself either, I sort of just sat there.

They never did explain what the point was, but I guess that was the point- it was whatever you created it to be.  The people that had bad experiences, and the people that had good ones, created it.  They did the exact same exercise and some enjoyed it and some didn’t.

It made me think about all those times that I made something better, or worse.  Like, getting lost with Wade, and making it a fun “adventure”, or getting lost with Wade, and getting really pissed off at him, and stressed out.

Have you ever heard someone say “Make it a great day?” I like that better then “have a great day”.  Why would I hope for someone to have a great day, when I could encourage them to make it a great one?  The first option leaves it up to circumstances, and the second leaves it up to them!

There is always something that we are running to, or hoping for, and we are always wanting what’s next.  I’ve been through some hard times these last few years and I’ve learned that things aren’t really ever as hard as we make them out to be.  I mean, even Stress is created by us, right?  We choose that emotion, and we can choose to be at peace- not like its easy or anything, but we can.

I think that’s why in the Bible Paul talks about being content in any circumstance, and how he learened to be content, whether he had a lot or a little, whether he was at home, or in prison.  We have a constant joy- and that is Jesus, and all these little things in life are so small when we really think about the big picture.  I say, let’s just choose to look at Him, instead of “what’s next”.

Make it a great day.

LIVE

May 11, 2009 at 2:52 pm | In Uncategorized | 1 Comment

I found this image on google images, and I just loved it- thought I would share!
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I’m a MOM

May 10, 2009 at 8:30 pm | In personal talk | 5 Comments
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Oh my gosh, I totally don’t identify with that word- MOM.  Do you?  I don’t know when I ever will.  It will probably take years, and lots more kids.  I get the feeling that my mother doesn’t identify with the word “grandma” and she might be slightly offended by the word IMO.  My best friend Jordan just had her first baby and she was talking about how weird it was to go to the doctor and fill out the paperwork and fill her name in under the “Mother” section.  I guess when I think of the word MOM I think of minivans (which I have seriously considered recently joining the Minivan club), high rise pleated jeans, short hair, and just plain un-cool.  I guess when I pictured myself becoming a mother, I thought I would be older, and I thought that I would slip into that cliche, ya know?  But then I look in the mirror, and I don’t fit that picture of what I always thought a “MOM” was.  When I was pregnant with Capri I seriously had anxiety about when Capri went to the first day of school, and I seriously feared that all the other Mom’s would look at my like I was Jamie Lynn Spears- a baby with a baby.  Like- how dare I call myself a “Mother”.  I kind of feel like all those short haired, high waisted, minivan driving Moms are going to catch me and rat me out for not being a real “Mom”.  I feel like most of the time I am out with Capri people look at me like I must be her babysitter, and so I always try to say things like “Come to MOMMY” pretty loudly so they know- I am a mother, yep.

I don’t identify with the words “Mom” or “Mother” but I am starting to identify with “Mama” because my own daughter says that sweet word to me, and I am her Mama, and I get that, and when its me and her, I feel like a Mama, and ya know what?  I feel like a good one.  I might not fit this idea I had of what a Mom is supposed to look like, but that’s okay.  I prefer it that way, I love that as I discover what it is to be a woman, and a wife, I’m also discovering the role of Mama, or as of the last week- “Momm-eeee”.  I like that one the best.

GIRL

May 8, 2009 at 9:43 am | In Capri, pictures | 5 Comments

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When I found out I was having a little girl- I was SO excited, I always wanted a little girl.  I also knew that it would be something new because I had all my nephews that I was close to, and I was pretty familiar with how the boy thing went.  But I’ll be honest, I thought that she would be a girl, because I dressed her up like a girl, and bought “girl” things for her.  What I have learned, is that God created her naturally feminine and girly.  It’s not even what I give her (okay, its a little of that ;) ) but, she just likes the girly stuff more then the boy stuff.    I thought this photo was perfect because it showed all the stuff she loves- she’s got her baby- oh she loves babies.  She can never have enough babies in her hands and in her bed at one time.  She’s got her purse.  This morning we were leaving the house and I said  “let’s go get ready” and she ran and grabbed her little purse and then ran to the door, even though she was only wearing a diaper! She loves to play with her new little kitchen, and she loves to play tea (I never knew she could pretend to drink tea this young, but she loves it!).  She is cuddly, and loves to be close, and loves to give kisses and hugs to everyone.  When I get her dressed in the morning she loves to go and show off to everyone how pretty she looks today.  She loves being told she’s pretty- she learned that word fast!

I just enjoy her so much, I love dressing her up, and playing tea with her, and brushing her hair and I just love that she’s my girl.

Wordless Wednesday: Don’t let the lovebugs bite

May 6, 2009 at 11:33 am | In Capri, family, pictures | 4 Comments
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